2020: The Best Lessons I Learned.

Nidhi Satija
3 min readJan 11, 2021

Hey guys, here we meet again. So, let’s continue with our journey to discover ourselves. In the previous writeup, we explored the different ways of loving ourselves, and next in the row is what should be avoided to ensure a successful ride towards our exploration and why it is necessary to know and love yourself?

I LOVE MYSELF

Now, be ready with your luggage accessories, which should have your Heart, Mind and full dedication for transformation. So, are you all ready to experience the thrill and adventure of this mesmerizing venture of your Life?

THE DOINGS TO AVOID:

STOP IT WITH YOU

To avoid the diversion in the path of your Self-Love these are the doings you should avoid for sure.

Stop Comparing Yourself: What do you get off yourself? Are you selling stuff that would be found on eBay as well as eBay alternatives? NO!! Believe me, you are only the one and unique person in this world, that couldn't be compared with anyone, because you are Unique the Way you are, you are beautiful the way you are and you sound amazing when you are in your sway!!! So, why you are there in a rush to destroy your beauty and originality by comparing it with others…..

DEAR SELF YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE

Stop it! say no to the ones who compare you to others and you yourself stop comparing yourself to others. You are the BEST version of your personality the way you are, which is out of stock at every buy and sell marketplace. :)

Don’t regret your doings: Whatever you have done was your past, remember that your past was just there to teach a lesson, take it as a life-enriching experience rather dwelling on it. Identify the hidden lessons in that doings that were not up to the mark, and then you would see that doings were essential to mould you in the right way.

JUST LEARN AND STOP REGRETTING

Stop seeking approval: When the person is well aware of what one deserves and what standard helps them to work in combination with their Self-esteem and accepted principles then one should never seek for the acceptance of their work from someone. When your Inner-satisfaction is lining up your desired work then don’t let the World play with your Emotions and Perspective. Nobody can judge you better than yourself.

BE CONFIDENT OF WHAT YOU DO?

So, these three don’ts should be strictly avoided and if you can’t then one can sell it on online selling sites, by exchanging your views and getting the satisfactory answers, that’s what I mean?

WHY IT IS MUST EXPLORE YOURSELF?

Well coming onto the final words of this writeup, to make yourself the Best, you need to explore within yourself the best by ignoring the what the World will say? To explore oneself is vital because the one who would ever stay by your side is you yourself whether it’s hardships or adversities the one who would ever inspire you is you yourself, So you are the most important person for yourself in this World.

MEET YOURSELF (The Most Beautiful Person in your Life)

SO, ISN’T IT CRUCIAL TO KNOW & UNDERSTAND THE MOST PERSON OF YOUR LIFE?

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Nidhi Satija

I am a passionate Writer, who loves to express all her Feels and Ideas by inking them on Paper. One can discover me through my Writings